I need advice on how to make my fiancé feel better about her body. She is 5ft 135lbs and she always says how fat and ugly she thinks she is. We have two kids together and she looks so perfect. I tell her how beautiful she is and how much I love her curves but she just doesn't get it. Any advice or tips. Also when we go out guys try to hit on her and she says it makes her feel better but when I say anything it doesn't work.
From a girl stand point, which this sounds silly but we feel like our guy is suppose to say these things. Loving herself is something she has to acquire on her own.You can support her though! She needs to see that her body is unique, her body is hers and no one elses She only has one body she needs to love instead of loathing it.
Is it by no coincidence that I scrolled for quite sometime and saw no POC? I don't really care either way, clearly you're a lost cause. I just thought I should, for the sake of social justice, point out that you deary are clearly the racist one. First off I never called you racist, I just pointed out how snowy white your blog is and asked that you stop using our language to describe those sans-color. It's so funny that you'd call me, a POC and SJ blogger racist! I am anti-white but no racist
You cant claim a language. Thick does not have a copyright to people of color. Your language. Your implications of this blog being racist is what i responded to.
You can submit if you like though, to add more of your thickness to the blog if youd like?
Your site is called "The Thickness" so I assumed I'd see some Black women. Stop appropriating our language. No one cares about your pasty white doughy bodies.
….? We arent racists here dear greyface. We reblog THICK women, THICK women submit to this blog as well. There are women of color on this blog. Being THICK is not a matter of race, its a matter of body type. We have many followers on this blog. So you dear grayface are the racist one here.